I'm asking this because I was in a relationship with a guy who treated me so nicely. He was such a gentleman and was so into me. I loved this about him. These things did not turn me off at all. A lot of men believe women hate this. It's the opposite. n fact, the way he treated me made me want him even more and I became very possessive and jealous. I also admit that it caused me to behave like a princess or a brat sometimes. For example, if I noticed him treating anyone as nicely as he treated me, I would start an argument or I would make up accusations. He would always calm me down and plead with me to stop. Sometimes I would stop, sometimes I couldn't stop.
I would start so many fights because I loved him so much. The last fight we had was one night when he drove me to a park kind of far from where we lived. We were sitting on a bench in front of a river and just talking when he started to talk about work. As he was talking, I didnt even hear what he was saying because I was so busy thinking about the pretty girl who works as a receptionist at the building where he works. I wondered if he was thinking of her and if that is why he brought up work. So I ask him of he likes her. He said no, but of course, this started a huge argument that I couldn't let go of. He kept begging me to stop.
Finally, I got up and started walking away from him. I have done this before and he hates it. He followed behind me asking me to stop. He was begging me to stop. He said it was far from home and dangerous to be alone. I didnt listen and kept walking fast. Suddenly, he yelled in a very stern voice "stop walking and get back to the car, now. I've had enough of your childish behavior". I jumped because he has never risen his voice to me before. Something came over me and I just stopped, turned around and walked back to him as if he were a magnet. Then we walked back to the car. When we got to the car, he opened the door for me and as I was getting in, he said that any other man would have spanked me long ago for my behavior. I didnt know how to take what he said. So when he got into the car, I started to cry. He said he was so sorry. Then he put his head on the steering wheel and he looked so defeated. It made me feel bad but I selfishly kept crying over the spanking comment. I didn't say sorry or comfort him.
Not too long after this, he broke up with me. He said that he didn't like how angry he got that night and that he didn't want it to happen again. He said that my temper is too wild and unpredictable and it might be dangerous. I begged him not to dump me. I told him that I would change and control my jealousies. But he didnt budge. A few weeks later, he went back to his country. He is from Europe. This was several months ago and I cannot stop thinking about him and how much I love him. I think about hjm non stop. Sometimes, when I'm in bed, I'll even replay in my mind how he scolded me that night and how I melted to his dominance. I get so turned on by it. I want him back so badly. He is still single from what I know. I don't know how to get him back :(. Any suggestions?
Anyway, any guys want to tell a story about a time you had to put your foot down or put your girlfriend/wife in her place? Did she fall deeper in love like I did?