So first l'll give you the backstory of how we met.
Almost a year ago we matched on Hinge and went on a few dates but after the third date he explained how a relationship wouldn't work as he doesn't plan on staying in the uk and he wants a gf from his home country. He said how he wanted to remain friends which we did for a few weeks but then he said he wanted to stop contact as he thought friendship wouldn't work after intimacy. About 3 months later we rematched on hinge and said he wanted to know how I was doing we then got each others insta. So we've been friends now since March. By the problem is, is that he always seems to want to meet or call me when he's feeling down. I also message /call him when I have problems but his responses are quite blunt (sometimes ignores them within a chat) and he likes to see the other side a lot. His mental health has deteriorated over the past half year so l've been there to listen to him a lot.
Over the past month we've met up a few times to go for a walk in the park and dinner where he chats a lot about his mh. At one hangout he needed up cuddling up a bit mentioning he was lonely. Then the most recent hangout he was talking about how a girl stopped being friends with him showing me paragraphs of her message criticising his attitude calling him childish. But he believes she never showed effort in the friendship.
Then he showed messages of a girl he matched with on hinge that he's been speaking to for many months. He said he's going on a date with her soon and he's nervous cause of his poor mh health and sensitivity to light. I showed him pics of the chat with a guy l've been speaking to and he commented but was short, the hangout was mostly about his struggles. He talked a lot about his struggles with his parents toxic relationship so I mentioned my family struggles and again he comments but they are minimal and the chat goes back to him. Idk what to do here I feel like I'm getting used as a free therapist… I've tried my best to explain the situation.
What do you think?