So it seems I always initiate for cuddling and affection. Recently, and this isn’t the first time, I will ask him to come cuddle. He looks at the clock and looks at me and says “okay but only for 5 minutes I have things to do”. Then other times he will say “but cuddling with you is never a few minutes”.
Tonight he got upset/frustrated with me about something with school. I went to come close and put my hands on his face to talk and he stopped me and said “please don’t” (as in touch him)
I’m currently on the couch, cause I don’t want to “make the mistake of any part of me touching him”.
I’ve talked to him and told him point blank “I need you to give me more affection. Not for a minute or an hour but period”. It lasts for a day then goes away. My mom said I should be thankful that he has been better since the beginning of our relationship.
We have done marriage counseling, for other issues, but I don’t know what to do.
If talking doesn’t work, telling him directly what I need doesn’t work, and counseling isn’t the answer then what do I do???im tired of initiating everything.
Please don’t be rude in the comments I really need some advice.