So context, my wife and I are separated living in the same house. We’ve been married 5 years, I really fucked up a year into our marriage and cheated. Well fast forward to now we being separated I stayed at my moms house for 2 months and when I come back she’s talking to a guy for about 2-3 weeks. It’s only been about a week and a half and we’ve had a lot of talks and awkwardness and she says she’s confused because she likes us both and doesn’t know what to do. I love my wife very much and I know from the past it may not seem that way but I made a vow to better myself and have eyes for nobody else and I’ve done that along with wait on her hand and foot to treat her like a queen because I believe I owed that to her. Well now I don’t know what to do. I so badly want to continue to fight for our marriage and keep our family together, I know in my heart she’s my one but I can’t make her get rid of this guy. And some part of me feels I deserve this and that I owe this to her if that’s what she wants but i now truly feel what she went through. Even before hand that was the most shameful thing and thing I’ve regretted the most. If I distance she’ll pull away because she’s already talked about divorce when I was at my moms but if I push too hard then it just pushes her away and stresses. I’m really at a loss.. thoughts? I’m just trying to save my marriage..