My best girl friend asked if I wanna go to this party in the city at this fancy hotel a few Saturdays from now and I would LOVEE to go. I’m 25, I got married a year ago, and my husband is 30. I have a strong strong feeling he won’t want to come because it’s far (it is), but I don’t go out much at all and idk before winter rolls around and the time passes and we start a family I do wanna like get this stuff in. Is it wrong of me to go with my friend without my husband? If our husbands don’t come, we plan to bring 2 more girlfriends with us. I don’t even think it’s a clubby vibe more like a lounge type thing but it just seems enjoyable to have a city night. I’d definitely be staying over there overnight because it’s so far . Since getting married , I’ve been able to visit my friend who moved down south for a week with my sister, I’ve celebrated my friends birthdays, with one being in NYC too… my point being my husband allows me to have that independence and for some reason i still wind up feeling like the worst wife on earth just for leaving for one night so rarely.
it’s never a matter of going out and meeting people, it’s showing up and committing time to my gfs since I’m living with my husband and my
Day to day is laundry, cooking, working, etc. with him. I’m just afraid it’s frowned upon and wonder what the general consensus is. Of course I’m gonna beg and plead my husband to come because it’ll make for a better evening and I’d rather he come, but if he doesn’t want to, I’m not sure I feel it’s fair that I have to say no to things like that that I wanna do literally once in a blue moon.