So my girlfriend [21F] and I [21M] have been dating since Sophomore year of Uni (2 years and change). She graduated in May and came back to our college town, essentially for our relationship. Since we’ve been back, hanging out with her feels more like a chore than something to look forward to. She’s been stressed about her future, which I fully understand, but she’s been excessively short/rude to me but been nice (normal) with all of her and my friends. Every time I’ve brought this up she cries, apologizes, says she’ll work on it, etc. Yet it’s continued to be a problem for months. Along with this, she acts completely oblivious every single time this comes up, and in her eyes everything is perfect in our relationship, so breaking up would seem like a “blindside” in her eyes, thus it would devastate her. I have also begun to realize she doesn’t really have any hobbies. She will insist on hanging out/sleeping over and not want to do anything but watch Tik Toks and Movies, which I do enjoy but not every other night while I’m 21 years old, and during essentially the last time of my life surrounded by exclusively people my age.
TL;DR My girlfriend has become a drag to be around due to her attitude since graduating, and even after multiple talks she still thinks everything is fine without making any changes. Advice needed.