Hi.
I’ve never been in this situation before, and just wanted to know people’s opinions on this. Is it courteous or unnecessary to tell your partner that a stranger, who you of course rejected, tried to ask you out for dinner? The guy, even after I’d stated I had a boyfriend, kept asking me questions and I felt I couldn’t get away. I’m a people pleaser and with CPTSD. I’m also autistic. I was polite but still, he asked me if I’d like to go for dinner, to which I said “I’d feel uncomfortable with that, as I said, I’ve got a boyfriend”.
I’m an open book and this was part of my day, so would like to share it with him, but I don’t want to upset him. I don’t necessarily believe he’s the insecure type though. It’s also just, personally, I’d prefer if he also told me about things like this should he find himself in a similar situation.
Thanks.