Context: I (29m) and wife (30) have been together since high school. Together 15 years and married for 6. A few months ago I started having doubts due to my wife's lack of a sex drive. Let me preface this with the fact I love my wife more than anything, but when we have sex its mostly transactional and we don't really do any exploration. For the past few months I've been conflicted with the feeling that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. When I try to talk to her about it she blows up and says that she is not good enough the way she is. I'm afraid that if I try to seek counseling that it might ruin my marriage and I don't know what to do.