When I met my boyfriend, I found out he was full of debt. So I thought I'd pay off his debt. I'd give him money to pay his debt. But then, two years later, I found out later that he never paid all his debt at all, his credit card and everything. He was also borrowing money with his parents, which I found out four months later. He told me it was a man's thing, that I will find out one day what it was about. It led me to believe that he borrowed the money for a ring. I did tell him I didn't want his dad to pay for the ring, that I wanted it to come from his own money, and he never did tell me that wasn't even about that. He had debt, that's why he borrowed money. For a year, I thought my ring was gonna come. Two years later, when we went to the bank to take a house, I found out all his debt. He was full, full, full of debt. And he lied to me every month about it. I don't know if I need to walk away from this relationship.


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