Me (F33) has been with my boyfriend (M32) for almost three years. We live together and we are/we're in a very happy, committed, loving relationship (or so I thought).
When he was out at football, something told me to check his iPad. I'm not usually one for this but I did. I saw in his messages that he had messaged some massage parlours asking how much for extras and do they offer extra services. One of the parlours he asked for a specific therapist and said he wanted to wait for her as he wanted to 'be inside her'. It also read as if he had been there before because it said 'how much for more extras this time'. One parlour I called the number and it is a Thai massage place about 5 mins from our home. These messages were sent across the three days that I was away visiting family.
When I confronted him he acted surprised as if he had no idea what I was talking about and maintained that he has don't nothing wrong, not messaged anyone and not tried to go to a parlour. He showed me his phone and the specific messages werent on his iphone but we're on his iPad. He doesn't know how they got there. I then looked at his apple maps and I saw that he had searched for a few massage parlours, including one that he told me was one which was near his old house before we moved in together.
He is maintaining that he has done nothing wrong and is acting like I am accusing him when he is innocent. I find it EXTREMELY hard to believe him but there is a tiny part of me that is wondering, what if he is telling the truth.