My husband and I (f42 & m40) are planning on divorce. We have had issues about a breast reduction operation that I want to do but he is very much against so he basically said that he is leaving me if I did it. The date is fixed on november 4th and I will not change it because I have been waiting for this appointment for 2,5 years.
I have told my family and friends now that we are getting a divorce and honestly, everyone is on my side telling me that he has lost his mind ending a marriage for a reason like this. I totally agree with them.
I had dinner with my best friends yesterday and we watched Downton Abbey, then at dinner we started talking about our husbands. They were shocked that I was still having sex with him even though we are separating and he hurt me. The thing is we have had sex even when we were fighting throughout our relationship. My best friend said ewwwwww that is disgusting when I told her. She said that’s why you are not getting what you want. I was very confused and now I feel ashamed and disgusting. Is it unnatural to sleep with your partner if you are fighting or on the verge of divorce?