Just so conflicted. I want to support my partner in his new role, environment and everything. Meeting new people and making friends. We’re long distance due to his work being in the service. But lately, this girl from work that that he considers friend is soooo giving me off vibe. I’ve met his other female friends work, which seems really good, and that I can trust, and he does too. But this specific one, I just feel off a lot. We had fights already, because I tell him, hanging out with female friends, I feel off and uncomfortable about it. At least hang out in a group setting but not one on one. He has other female friends from before we met that I am okay with totally. Given the fact that they’ve known each other before me/us. They had to stop by for a few days in this place, everyone’s new to him. All of a sudden just a specific girl he went out with just by themselves, and I was like who’s she? And everything. He responded that she’s from work, she has a partner and everything, still we got into a fight, because our agreement even for me is if it’s an opposite gender, u gotta hangout in a group setting, not just one on one. Unless family or whatever. So we got into a fight, he’d end up being mad at me coz Im upset, he still went out for hours with her, turn to airplane mode, so I can’t call him. That argument went for like the whole days they’re there. Then, they’re back to the main location of work. Same thing happened, I expressed and explained so much that I feel off with her somehow, he does his best to talk to me, reassure me, and says that the girl is actually engaged, but I’m like why is she inviting you to hangout? You both just met at work??? I don’t know. I’m the kind of person that would go along with people, but I can be like if he’s from work and we just known each other, I wouldn’t be like texting him and ask if he wants to go out with me knowing he has a fiancé..so I just don’t see it makes sense. Then one time, she invited my partner to hangout and do karaoke, with this another dude. Obviously, Im like 🤨.. I said I feel really off with her, we talked, he reassured me, and I asked just long as that dude is there. Then they met, him and her, and my partner called me, and said oh the guy didn’t come. And I was like why? He asked me if I want to talk to the female friend.. I don’t know Im the person that shuts down and don’t know what to say when I feel upset. So it’s like for me it’s just them at night karaoke and drinking. We’re to talking to the point that it sounds like an argument already, then he just hanged up the call and went airplane mode the whole night. Of course, I tried to call back many times and messaged him. The entire night passed. No call backs. I was so upset and was overthinking a lot. I mean who does that if you’re not doing anything wrong or hiding anything? Then the next day, I called him lot of times, then got ahold of him, then we apologized to each other and talked it through. Then we’re back to being okay again. But then it happened again today, this night. That friend invited him again to go out for drinks, again feel off and everything… I did what he asked me to, to talk to her, I did. Lol. Still feel the same thing? She even said that she feels awkward 😬 I mean why?? Then the whole night there was supposed to be another dude wit them, but then he again did not show up, so again like deja vu of the previous time, so I expressed how i feel and he reassured me and we talked for awhile while their in the bar already, I understand how he just want to have some drinks and everything, we’re talking but the female just left and said she’ll go home. And then, my partner got upset at me (?) reason is we talked too much the girl got tired of waiting for him (?) I mean I got friends too that does that but knowing it’s for their partner, Im super supportive. Like it wouldn’t kill the night for me. So yeah, I feel really conflicted on what’s happening. Now I end up feeling guilty for want assurance and safety with my partner..am I too much?