TL;DR, Me 'F/21' and my bf 'M/22' of 9 years, will have week on week off fights and or arguments, we will have a week where its complete hell and we cant stop screaming at eachother no matter what were feeling, weve been living together for 5 years now, so im not sure if its just coz were always around eachother or if its normal.
In those weeks, i will admit, we do push eachother around, and yell and scream and cry, it just feels like there is so much pent up anger that idk where its coming from, which is really odd to think since him and I are such good communicators even when were having little tiffs. We will be so angry, things will get smashed from both of us, etc, but then afterwards we will apologise and go back to normal for about an hour before were back to fighting over nothing again. It hurts so much. And then the next week we are the closest we've ever been, we cant stay away from eachother, were so lovey, we kiss we hug, we play games together, things are amazing, were such a team, and then the next week or two, we start fighting again, and nothing triggers it, we just get so angry, can someone tell me if this is normal or should we go to therapy?🥲