Over the past couple of months I’ve noticed my wife making comments about “you don’t …” Recently it was how much I don’t show my affection. She’s not wrong, but this isn’t new for me, I’m not an overly affectionate person. She’s also casually mentioned that I don’t talk dirty to her. Again not wrong, something I tested the waters with her decades ago and she claimed she didn’t like it so it was not something I pursued, not everyone is into dirty talk and that’s ok. Recently she has stated that I’m not mean but I’m also not nice. Also recently she has just seemed cold and indifferent to my being. I’ve asked several times if there is something she wants to talk about, if there is something bothering her, or if there is something that I’m doing/not doing that is upsetting her. All times I’ve asked she has said no and she explains that maybe she’s tired, not feeling well, or it was just a hard day and that’s why maybe she seems that way. When asked if she wants to talk about said hard/long day when she mentions it she says no. I feel like there is this growing space between us getting bigger and I don’t like it. I slept on the couch last night, usually if I fall asleep on the couch she wakes me and we go to bed. Last night she just got up and left me there. What is happening? How do I stop it? Can I alone stop it? Is this the beginning to the end?