Asking here because I've thoroughly annoyed my support systems with other things.
My(33F) boyfriend of 6 months(38M) is friends with a local influencer girl. You know the type, gorgeous and smiley, her posts are often scantily clothed and sexual in nature. Which I totally support, in most lights I love to meet confident women like her.
Onto the issue: Recently this influencer girl shared a provocative Jamie Lee Curtis meme, to which he commented "I'd rather you than her. Just personal preference." Cue some yucky feelings. Now I find myself frequently checking her page for more comments from him, to which there are more, just not so overt. I really do not like that he does this.
He really is very caring and attentive to me when he feels good. But lately his energy has been low due to life stuff, and I'm just not getting the bedroom attention that I need from a relationship. That's the real problem, I know. But I wanted to give us time to solve it until I discovered this.
Our last "session" after this happened was completely ruined by him showing me skinny girl p*rn. This usually isn't a problem for me, but I admit it brought the yucky feelings back and ruined my mood, ultimately compounding the problem.
Is this worth discussion? How do I either broach the subject, or deescalate/redirect my feelings into something positive? I'm afraid to go into a conversation like this unprepared, as my previous boyfriends primarily used social media for family/hobbies and I really do enjoy the relationship in every other way.
TLDR: Boyfriend comments on attractive friend's post implying he prefers her body over an actress. I don't appreciate these comments at all.