TL;DR I (22F) have been masturbating since I was about 13 years old. Over time, I’ve had problems with orgasming. I believe my clit has gotten desensitized from the rose heavily for 9 years. My bf (M22) believes that doesn’t do things rights to make me cum and he truly he just can’t make me cum. He doesn’t believe me when I tell him that it’s not him at all. He wants to stop having sex because he can’t make me cum. I believe orgasms shouldn’t determine if we have sex or not.
I’ve been trying to get a gyne appointment for a while now so I can get checked out. Now he’s saying that he wants to stop having sex because of this problem. What should I do? I’m so conflicted because I can’t control how sensitive my clit is. I feel like i’m being punished for something my younger self did. Please lend me some advice! I don’t want to lose him.