I think I’ve finally found a keeper. Im pretty sure I hit the jackpot actually. I met him at his job and we slowly started flirting. After a couple of months of us both being scared to ask eachother out (neither wanted to make the other uncomfortable in his place of work), I took the leap and messaged him online. I figured he’d just ignore it if he wasn’t interested and we could just forget about it.
We’ve been talking nonstop since. He took me on dreamy perfect first date. He invited me to church and introduced me to his mom. He now sleeps over at my house usually once a week. It all just feels right and peaceful.
He’s sweet, kind, affectionate, consistent, good morals and values, has his shit together, etc. Not to mention the sexual and emotional chemistry is incredible.
I know it’s still the honey moon phase but I genuinely cannot find a single thing wrong with this man. He doesn’t leave me questioning or confused or anxious. Like I feel like I can just relax and enjoy this without having to decipher intentions or anything because I just know that this is going to be something great. His actions and words consistently reaffirm it to me. I’ve never felt this secure and just blissful with a man.


23 comments

  8. I am on three and a half years and wondering if it will ever happen for me again but this gives me hope! Best wishes to you!

  11. Congratulations! I’ve been single for about 3 years and was starting to give up on dating and think all men were evil (had my heart broken by 1 too many situationships) but I recently met the guy of my dreams. Like you said, he makes me feel secure and I never have to question his intention or feelings for me. It’s sad to say I’ve never had a guy treat me so gently, and with wholesome intentions. I feel at peace and adored by him. My previous relationships have felt like a desperate ongoing act for love and attention. I almost self sabotaged too by pulling away because I was so thrown off by his venerability. I’m also still in the honeymoon phase but like you said when you know, you know. My heart is full.

  12. Aw!!! Congratulations! I love when people find each other and genuine love happens.

  13. Oh congratulations!! I’ve been single for 3.5 years. Happily, just doing my own thing. Travelling, focusing on my health etc. But may this love also fine me 😂

  18. That is so insparational that I can’t belive people like that can really be happy. I am too single for mouths now and I don’t want to date people that we arn’t going to be like this. Thank you VERY much for writting this post, my faith is back again!

  19. I’m head over heels for this woman I found. She is spiritual, modest, smart and kind. She cares deeply for those around her including me, I am truly blessed . I wish we could spend more time together. We love listening to books, traveling to unique parts of the world, watching our favorite shows. I love to cook for her, trying new things and not afraid to try anything. She completes me. We try and go out on dates weekly, sometimes we just stay home. Quick trips to cities close by for the weekend. We have been married for almost 36 years now. We are best friends and I love her forever.

  20. Now, make sure to let him know about how you feel too. I think its important, very important for men to know that their partner really likes them!! ITS IMPORTANT!!! WORDS MATTER (Say almost exactly these words and maybe more)…Do it and let me know lol…Happpy for uuuu

  22. This is so beautiful. I love that you’ve documented it so that when the honeymoon phase ends, you can look back with love. Just do those check ins, and keep growing. You deserve this!!💚

  23. Sometimes we just have to stop being scared and go for it. Either it’ll work….or it won’t. That is a part of life. Congratulations to you and your guy!

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