Hello all,
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. Lately, I've been getting resentful because she just seems to want to be with her friends all the time. I support her in everything she does (she does theater, and cosplay) but I feel like she is prioritizing that all over me.
We had a talk the other day because she is not good with communication (she has told me that so many times). I told her she's hardly affectionate and seems to put her friends above me. She told me she's not the affectionate type, she doesn't care about intimacy, and that she likes her friends. I told her I get that but she needs to make time for us too. When she does make time for us she just wants to drag all of her friends along with us for whatever we are doing.
I took her out to dinner the other day and she was always picking up her phone texting all of her friends during dinner. She did it during lunch too and I got up and said I'm going to go home and left when we went out today. I told her I'll let you finish what you are doing and if you want to go out at a later time when you are free text me.
I just don't feel like her boyfriend. I feel more like a friend. She doesn't initiate anything, she will only kiss me and hold my hand if I do it first but even then she pulls away when we kiss after a bit. She told me the other day during our talk her longest relationship was only 6 months and that all of the men are the issue. After seeing what I've been seeing, I'm starting to doubt that. I've waited for her to be single for the last few months and now that she did and I asked her out, I feel like it was a huge disappointment waiting.
Do you think I should continue or just call it quits? Thank you!