I 22M have been seeing this girl 22F for about a month and things were good at first. She gave me her number and we hit it off. We texted everyday. She texted me first and said "good morning!" and later "how was your day?". She showed genuine interest in me and made me feel special. She would say and do things only a real couple would do. But after a month has passed, it was starting to get hard to schedule dates with her and it felt like she wasn't putting in as much effort and making time to see me. She then started texting less and leaving me on delivered for hours on end. Then she'd get back to me with an excuse and apologize. We scheduled a date after 2 weeks from the last one and then she stood me up. This was after I called her and wanted to have "the talk". She said she didn't know what she was looking for and that she was afraid of labels. Overall she was scared to lose her freedom. This is because of the previous relationships she jumped into and got hurt in(supposedly). Maybe to her it felt like we were moving too fast and she started to feel the pressure. I asked her if we could talk in person again and she said yes. I gave her a place to meet and asked her what time would work for her. She then left me on delivered for a day but posted a story with her friend at the store that same day. I was fed up with being put on the back burner and felt like she didn't care about me and was just avoiding it all. It sucks because of all the mixed signals shes given me and how much she did show she liked me. But then puts me last on her priority out of nowhere. I was fed up with the shadiness and blocked her. I keep having regrets and feel like I ended things permanently but want her to hit me up if she's willing to take accountability. We're in no contact now and I don't wanna break my silence because I feel its up to her now. If she really does like me, she'll come through. I feel despite the block, she'd try to reach me. She has my phone number too. I keep wanting to get my hopes up but feel stupid and am having a hard to moving on as this happened very recently. Was she only in it for the attention? Or did she really just get cold feet?


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