Married (12yrs) recently found out my wife had lied about some major things early in our relationship, things that could have changed whether we ever got married. We’ve spent the past two weeks trying to work through it, talking and rebuilding trust. But this week, she had a Disney trip planned, and I just dropped her off at the airport. I asked her not to go. we still had things to discuss, and I felt we needed to keep focusing on us. Instead, she chose to go anyway. Right now, it feels like I’ve been put on the back burner, and that the trip and everything it represents mattered more than the effort to fix what’s broken between us.