I'm just fine with consoling him with big things every once in a while, but the thing is that he has BPD, (Borderline Personality Disorder), and is much more sensitive than the average person, so there kind of always seems to be something wrong. Not in a mean way, I'm just being blunt.
Lately he's been dealing with some heavy stuff, so there's been quite a bit of talk about it from him (I would call it complaining but that would be incredibly insensitive of me. That is kind of what it is though) and all I can really muster up to say is "I'm sorry hun:(" or some variation over and over and over again, since all of these issues keep coming back to back in our texts and conversations. I've kind of always been this way, especially when it's issue after issue, so quickly in succession to the other.
I don't want to be so dry, I need him to feel considered more than ever right now, but I just can't figure out what else I'm supposed to say!
I feel really bad about it, and I'm worrying it's making him upset.
Is there anything I could do or keep in mind? Please help ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜