So i recently met this guy (29M) thru my friend (30F) and we all have been getting close. My guy friend got out of a relationship 4 months ago and told me he wasnt looking for a relationship since it's been stressful. But he also has been replying to his ex if she contacts him because she's suicidal and he said he gets worried. I too got out of a toxic relationship a month ago and it's been pretty freeing. One night, we all just got super drunk and my friend said she needs to go home. I ended up initiating and kissing my guy friend (we ended up going all the way). After that night, i wanted to be on the same page and asked him if that was a one night stand for him, and he was pretty chill about it and told me he doesnt want a relationship basically. So i respected that. I also had a planned hinge date the next day and told him about it… i even told him i was going to cancel and delete the app if he answered differently. But yeah, I went to the date and he told me he felt a bit of jealousy? And then the next time we drank in a group, we ended up hooking up again. And then the 3rd time, I was spending a night in the city (he's 30mins away) and he asked me if i wanted any company, so i told him to come thru. We ended up getting dinner, holding hands, and hooking up again. I'm not sure what we are at this point. I sometimes feel a bit guilty because i ask myself do i want this. He also said he felt a bit of guilt after the first hookup.