So my husband stopped having sex with me. When we met we had sex everyday. He said he was baffled because he never liked sex before. He made it sound like I changed something in him. After a year it became 2-3 times a week which then after we got married once a week. Then on my 30th birthday, he said, that’s it. I never want this again while he was still in me. This was one year of marriage. I didn’t say anything at the time because I thought he was maybe just tired because I never pressured him into doing anything. But he has always been a man of his word so he hasn’t touched me since(sexually, he still loves kisses and cuddles). I asked him that we could divorce and he started crying saying I am the love of his life. He promised to seek help and he got blue pills. They didn’t work. He did some other hormonal therapy and it didn’t work. I suspect it is not a bodily problem but that he doesn’t want sex. He asked me once out of the blue if I watch porn and I said yes sometimes when I want it over with fast. He got so very angry because I watch porn but also more because I masturbate and said that I was not to do that again. I am married. He can do it if I wanted. The thing is it is the most awkward thing in the world when he touches me without any lust or desire from his side. So I said that I was going crazy without sex but also I can’t do it myself and made the mistake of asking him to let me sleep with others. He became very angry and started crying that someone else would “touch me”. So I told him that we should divorce. He has been crying for 2 weeks now. He said that he will seek help again because he loves me more than anything. I love him too. Imagine seeing the love of your life this devastated because of you. It is a horrible feeling.