So I really want to be intimate with my future partner once I do get in a relationship. But I have this fear of having sex with someone; I feel like I’ll mess everything up and I worry that I won’t be able to fit it inside me iykyk. I’m a virgin if that wasn’t obvious. I grew up in a Christian conservative household so I’ve never really spoken with my mom about this stuff, and I still don’t. I’m worried that the first time I do end up having sex eventually, I’ll be so awkward and not know what to do, and I’m worried I won’t be able to say no if i get uncomfortable or something, as I have a habit of people pleasing. How does one get over these fears? Thank you