(28 f) lesbian have met my coworker (28f) bisexual girl few months ago. We started working together and we added eachother on social media. Since then we have intense texting and really intense friendship. We hangout a lot, we also fight a lot over small things also we fight a lot since we met. Those fights are constant since begining of our friendship sometimes she initiates it sometimes me, but they are usually really emotional fights and they are looking a lot like people who are in relationship having a fight.

Also I am not sure am I delulu or we flirt with each other but in joking way? We tease each other a lot in way like ,,making fun of each other'' When I dress up really nicely she often compliments me and one time we wrote 10 things what we like on each other and she called me ,,sexy'' . I think it is little weird to use a word ,,sexy'' for a friend. We never cross a line and she never tells me how she really feels about me or does she have any deeper feelings, I am so confused. Tbh I think I emotionally fell for her because we texted each other literally 24/7 for 6 months. Also I do like her. When we are at work with other people I noticed we stare at each other more then we look at other people, and I never noticed that she compliments other female or male coworkers in same way as me, I feel like she is giving me special attention. Also in texting she would often send me a lot of videos of her doing stuff or what she bought in store etc.

But also she has a long distance boyfriend and her boyfriend is bisexual too, but they see each other maybe 2-3 times a year for a few days, so I am confused. She rarely mentions him but sometimes she mention him and they are togther for few years. Btw she never had girlfriend and she never mentions having any feelings for women, she only said that she is bisexual and she knows I am lesbian

Do you thinks that she is maybe into me and that there is something unspoken going on between us? Because I am not sure is it normal to text your NEW friend for like 24/7 constantly everday


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