We are going to have two years dating. He has a full time job, is the leader of the department, and he manages a full time volunteer opportunity at his church. His plate is full, but we see each other every day and talk on the phone three times a day at least. Today was the first time I felt strange- at first he wasn’t as affectionate and wanted to play video games. I saw him very serious when an issue arose with his plumbing at his house later that evening. He didn’t want to hold hands and I forgot to get him a plate for his food and I could see it bothered him. He buys me flowers every week after I asked him if I could have some. I made the worst request of asking for a Taylor swift bouquet, it was the first time I asked for something like that and he said he felt like that was not very tasteful of me to ask for. I had asked for a love letter and dinner and he said that he will try to find the time but he feels overburdened with time. I felt bad and felt so selfish. We left upset at each other and he told me he felt bad though that maybe he thinks he might have taken me for granted or he doesn’t know or maybe it’s been a while since he’s dated. I felt a little sad because I felt like it wasn’t too much to ask for at the beginning but maybe it is. But now I’m so worried I came off and was unappreciative. How can I fix this?