I don’t really have anyone else to ask this, so I figured I’d post here. I’ve been acquainted with this girl for about two months, and while the sex is good, I’d like to lean a bit more into the domination side. Long story short, I wouldn’t call myself submissive, but I do enjoy it when the woman takes control every now and then. I’m looking for positions where she can take the lead and feel like she’s the one doing the fucking. I know cowgirl has different variations, and there's bouncing as the obvious example, but for me, it often feels a little too performative, like she’s putting on a show for the guy, whereas what I’d really like is for her to take charge and focus on her own pleasure. I came across the Amazon position (though it seems pretty impractical to pull off) and also learned more about grinding while on top. By grinding, I mean instead of bouncing up and down, she moves her hips forward and back (almost like thrusting), so that there’s constant clitoral contact while still controlling the penetration. From what I’ve read, this position is not only easier to sustain than bouncing, but also one of the best ways for women to actually orgasm during penetrative sex, which is exactly what I’d want her to focus on. So my question is, how successful has grinding cowgirl been for you (if you’ve tried it), and are there other positions that give that same “she’s the one fucking him” vibe?
Side note: She is naturally more on the submissive side, so I’m not sure how into this she’d be, but I’d love to hear perspectives and recommendations.