So this girl(23F)and |(21F) have been seeing each other occasionally. I eat her ass, she sucks on my tits and then we call it a night. It's always quite fun and exciting but a bit awkward. The build up to it is awkward because I'm just an awkward person but once we're in it it feels so good. I was just wondering what most women like when their asses are being eaten out. Do you like a massage first or a tease first then go for it? How do your partners ease the awkwardness too?
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So this girl(23F)and |(21F) have been seeing each other occasionally. I eat her ass, she sucks on my tits and then we call it a night. It’s always quite fun and exciting but a bit awkward. The build up to it is awkward because I’m just an awkward person but once we’re in it it feels so good. I was just wondering what most women like when their asses are being eaten out. Do you like a massage first or a tease first then go for it? How do your partners ease the awkwardness too?
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Nobody knows how but it’s provocative, it gets the people going!!
Eating pussy and calling it ass or eating actual ass? I’d like some tips on actual ass eating as well.
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Talk to her. Pay attention to how she reacts. Try new things. Male here, but I have found partners have enjoyed it best with either light teasing tip of the tongue contact or enthusiastic full contact. The kind if middle ground doesn’t do much. Main thing though is to ask and observe HER. Best of luck and have fun.
It’s a hole (no shit right?). It’s sensitive and has strong muscles. So treat it like your trying to coax it to relax. And it’s tied to someone whose gonna feel every little motion, so don’t like bite it. Nibbling is fine, but down to personal preference. Otherwise your hands have an entire ass to play with, grasp, grope, swat. Ease your tongue or a finger in. Slow, sensual, and have fun.
I’ve always maintain that people who are curious about how to pleasure an anus should start with their own.
Talking to your partner and observing her response is the best way to learn what she likes.
I think it generally feels best when the tongue is very wet. Don’t be afraid to drool on her a bit. It may not sound sexy, but wetter is better for anal play too.
Here are a few specific moves which I’ve found some people enjoy:
– Flat tongue: You can start at the top or bottom with just the tip of your tongue, and as you slide it down, press the flat of your tongue against her whole anal area. You can sort of wiggle it from side to side to increase the stimulation and spread her open a bit more. The idea is that she gets the feeling of something warm and wet sliding slowly over her asshole, keeping good contact the whole way.
– Circling: Use your tongue to draw circles around the pucker. Closer in, further away, vary the distance a bit.
– Tracing the spokes: you know how assholes have lines radiating out like the spokes on a bicycle? Lick up and down each spoke, working your way around the whole circle. This can be great both for teasing and for finding where she’s most sensitive.
– Penetration: talk to her first, and obviously only do this if you’re both enthusuastic. If she’s receptive, press a flat area near the tip of your tongue against a broad area. Only go in to the extent that the muscles are welcoming you; like anything with anal, it doesn’t feel so good if you force your way in.
With all of these, vary the speed and pressure based on her feedback.
Some people may dislike every one of these suggestions, but hopefully there’s something useful in there for you!
Wait til you master Tribadism.
Just work it slowly starting at the pussy first then work your way down to the cinnamon ring and tickle it a little with your tongue, then move back up to the vag, then repeat this over and over and build up the time in each spot, then just plunge into the cinnamon ring with your tongue and go with it . Just how I do it and I hope you guys have fun with it. I really dont think there’s a right or wrong way per se. Have fun.
You have a lot of really good advice here, I’m a lesbian and some things I like to do with my wife is having 3 fingers resting on her clit (while behind her doing the tongue-bum) to give some pressure and very, very light movement. Not enough to take away the focus from the rimming.
The best quote I’ve ever heard for anal was: “You gotta make the booty curious.” 😂 Have fun!
My wife and I are both autistic, so it’s a loving awkwardness at this point hahaha
Awkwardness is normal at first, but it usually fades once you’re both relaxed. Most women like a bit of buildup—kissing, touching, maybe some teasing with your hands or tongue around the area before diving in. Pay attention to her reactions, adjust pressure and speed, and don’t be afraid to ask her what feels good in the moment. Confidence and clear communication go a long way to killing the awkwardness
Honestly just treat it like foreplay anywhere else—don’t rush straight in. Kiss around her thighs, tease with your hands a little, maybe even work your way down from her back. The buildup makes it hotter and kills the awkwardness. Pay attention to how she reacts and match her energy—confidence and enthusiasm are what make it feel good, not some secret technique
I was super awkward the first few times I went down on a partner’s ass too. What helped was starting slow with a little massage around the cheeks and lower back, teasing with fingers and kisses before actually going for it. I found that communicating a bit, like asking what feels good or letting them guide your hand with subtle cues, makes it way less awkward. Once you get into a rhythm it becomes natural and way more fun for both of you.