Me and my girlfriend, both 21, have been having sex recently. We’re 8 months into the relationship, and we started having sex from the second month. Ever since then we’ve had this worry. We went to hotels around 8 times to have sex and spend some good time together.
For the first 3 times she was really tight and told me it hurt, so we stopped. Now for the past 2 times I’ve been able to penetrate more easily and do my thing, but she still says it hurts a bit. She says it’s super sensitive. Is it because it’s still new to her, or is this just how it’s going to feel? She says it’s not super pleasuring either. Am I doing it wrong?
I’ve tried out different positions. She says doggy feels extra sensitive. She describes it like sometimes it feels good here and there, but later it feels super sensitive, almost like hitting a cavity nerve or something. Not in a terrible way, but like very low density discomfort.
So how do I have great sex with her? And what exactly is women orgasming? I honestly don’t know. Is it just when they feel pleasure? How do I know if my girlfriend has an orgasm, and how can I help her get there?
We do a lot of foreplay at least 20 minutes to get her really turned on. What else can I do? I really need tips. I’m new to this and just want to do it right.