I realized after 15 years of marriage and 5 children that I’m done. Our sex life is terrible because he doesn’t care what I like or want he just wants to get off. If I don’t have sex with him for two days then he goes on rants about how I never do anything for him and how I purposely do this to him ( like get my period every month). It’s become a chore at this point.
I was talking to a friend and she asked what my husband got me for our anniversary. I said that he got mad . Mad because even though I had spent thousands on a cruise just for us. I “made him look back because he didn’t get me anything “.
My friend was like that’s messed up. And why stay when I’m obviously not happy. And she’s right. Every year for birthdays and anniversaries and father’s days I go out of my way for him to feel special and lo ved. But I I get in return is oh I forgot or I plan on getting you something. I have yet to get anything. Now I don’t even get acknowledgment. But he expects me to go above and beyond for him.
So yeah. I’m done. I deserve better and even it that means being a single parent. It’s better than this.