My girlfriend brings up any past mistakes I've made no matter how big or small they are and blows up about them any chance she gets. She watches Tik Tok and her algorithm on Tik Tok, a lot of the videos are about relationships and relationship advice. And how your man is supposed to treat you. She sees a video about a guy talking to people at a party and his girlfriend is there as well. His girlfriend texts him she wants to go from the other side of the room and he sees the text and starts telling everyone that she just texted him she wanted to go. My girlfriend sees this video and says this is something you would do. She equates this to a time when she was going to the gym and mentioned there was certain type of people at the gym. She forgot her headphones and was walking thru the gym with me and on speaker. She did mention for me to be careful what I say because she didnt have headphones. Me like a bonehead ask her about those people and I was on speaker. She got upset because shes like the people there can hear me. Mind you I apologize about it. But no one at the gym says anything to her and I dont think the people at the gym actually heard me because no one said anything to her. But she brings this up that happened months ago and uses that one time to say the video I mentioned is like me. And I say no I would never do what the guy did at the party. She turns this into an argument because I pushed back against her trying to compare me to the vuy in the video and turns things into an argument. She says im not thoughtful and she brings up all the mistakes I made that have nothing to do with this. If she starts scrolling on Tik Tok, I better watch out. Its tiresome. How do I get her to not start arguments about stuff on Tik Tok and correlate it to our relationship or how stop the bleeding when she goes on one of her tirades when she does?