my bf (26m) and i (24f) have been together for almost five years. we never struggled sexually, but i got chronically ill one year ago and since then, i struggled. i didn't feel attractive or sexy and i was in pain a lot, so i wasn't in the mood most of the time. my boyfriend has been really patient and supportive throughout all of this.
a few weeks ago, i suddenly noticed that i was in the mood for sex again, it was almost a weird feeling. and i started to feel it more often again. i now want to surprise my boyfriend who has been so helpful and kind through all of this.
he usually is more dominant and likes lingerie and he loves doggy, but i want to make it really special. before i started struggling, we also used to try out a lot of new stuff.
any ideas/tips?