Hi everyone, I'm 23F and my bf is 26M. So we've been in LDR and in total together for 4 years and for the initial 2 years, we both had high libidos and I would orgasm from PIV and then 2 years ago, something awful happened and my body has shut down and I've had a low libido while he's still has a relatively high libido.
Now everytime we have had sex irl, in the past 2 years, I've had trouble finishing from PIV, yet everytime he asked me, I'd say yes. 3 days ago, it suddenly slipped out of my mouth that I finish more from foreplay and not PIV. Now he feels betrayed and lied to, his libido has taken a massive hit and so has his self confidence..no matter how much i try to console him, he still keeps telling his confidence has taken a hit, and it's all his fault. His libido has hit an all time low.
I didn't mean to lie to him when he asked, I just didn't want to be a hassle by asking him for more foreplay after penetration. I have completely fucked it up and idk how to fix it. He feels like he would never want to have PIV with me again, solely because it doesn't satisfy him. His self confidence has hit the ground and I feel extremely awful. I've been going through a depressive episode Because of this 🙁 Can I do anything to make him feel like having sex with me again?
Any and all advice will be appreciated
Thank you so much!