I (25M) and my girlfriend (28F) have been dating for over 5 months now. Overall, our relationships has had ups and downs so far. But one thing that has bothered me for a month or two now is the fact that she doesn't give her address or invite me over to her place despite us dating for 5 months by now. Besides a few videos and pictures that I had to ask for just to see her place. I have never been to her place at all. She has told me that her house is a house that her and her ex used to own back when they were together. But once they broke up she kicked the ex out of the house. My girlfriend only lives there. While the ex lives with his mom. The house is in the both of there names. My girlfriend wants to leave the house and get her own place in two months. Putting full ownership to the ex as he will take over the house once my girlfriend leaves. She was honest about all of this to me even in the beginning of our first date. Whenever she told me about this I didn't think much of it. I've never been in a situation like this before and so I didn't know what to think. But around two months ago she would vent to me about how her ex went into her house and would destroyed all of her belongings. Her ex's mom has a key to that house she told me. But the fact that he/her mom's ex went into her house triggered me and I started to feel anger/jealously about this. That he gets to go into this house and I don't get to whenever I ask if I could see her place sometime. She informs me that the reason as to why is because of the fact that her ex is this abusive insane guy who would kill me if he saw us and that she is scared of me knowing her place if we break up since she doesn't want me to be like her ex. Therefore stating that it's her boundary. She said that she is willing to show me her place whenever she needs help moving. Also said that once she moves into her new place that I can come whenever I would like. Within two months was the timeframe of when she said that she is moving. But it just doesn't sit right with me that she can't show me her place now and I can only see it whenever she moves. It comes off as a red flag like she's hiding that he ex lives there still or something. I'm not sure what to think. We talk everyday, hang out once a week, she has done a lot for me to show that she loves me, and said that she only sees a future with me. I need some advice on this?