We’ve been dating for a few months but this was the first time we had sex. He didn’t, I didn’t either, have a condom so I didn’t want to continue. (I’ve always told him we have to use protection and if for some reason we can’t, he must pull out). He was in the mood tho so in the end I said ok fine . I didn’t remind him to pull out as I thought he already knew what he had to do.
So we were having sex. after a while, when he “finished,” he jumped outta the bed and tried to leave. I stopped him and asked him what he was doing. He said he needed to clean up. I said clean up what? Where have you finished? He said in his hand. I didn’t believe him at all he was just acting weird. So I said show me . Empty.
At this point I’m confused as hell, I thought he hadn’t be able to finish, but he assured me he had. I didn’t get it at first but then I realized he had finished inside me. He confessed he came long time ago but didn’t want to tell me.
I was surprised. I’m like I’ve told u many times I didn’t want u to come inside and u still went ahead and did it? Couldn’t even say hey sorry I couldn’t pull out do you want me to stop? He just told me he thought I noticed.
I feel like he took me for a fool I don’t know. Now we’re just chatting like nothing happened but I wanna talk to him about this. In the moment I didn’t really say anything because I was shocked. Now I’m furious and regret not giving him shit when it happened. What do I even do to ensure he doesnt do this to me again?