I’m feeling upset and confused by the guy I’ve been seeing. We had great chemistry prior to sex… but when I asked him for oral sex after I gave him head he laughed and said “I don’t go down on girls with pussy like yours.” I felt shocked and dejected. I asked him to elaborate on “pussy like mine .” He said that “big lips look gross and he doesn’t want to lick or suck on piss flaps.”
He was very crude about it. I was immediately turned off and I asked him to leave. He was offended and said “I have no compassion for his preferences.” I’m bisexual, I’ve never had any girls say this to me before. We were both really into it. This guy thought he was somehow a judge of other’s bodies. I didn’t say a word that he couldn’t keep it up or that he was short.
I feel like he got what he wanted and gave me some lame excuse and tried to play victim. Not to mention I kind of feel a bit insecure now. I’m not sure wether to let this roll off of me and ditch him or if I’m in the wrong and not understanding his preference. One of my friends said he well eat any pussy. I thought that was the attitude of every straight guy?