We’ve been together for a year, but she had to return to Vietnam after her student visa ended. I live in London, and my plan was to go to Vietnam, live with her temporarily, and continue building our relationship. I was fully set on proposing once we had a few more months together, but now I feel defeated and devastated. I don’t know where to go from here. She doesn’t even seem to realise that what she said wasn’t okay.
It is not like I don't have better options, there is a lot of difficulties involved with the travel, uprooting my life in London to move to Vietnam for a few months, etc. But I still wanted to choose her over everyone else I could go out with.
Not sure where to go from here, I genuinely believed she was the one, and she doesn't seem to understand that this might be morally dubious. She does claim that she loves me a lot, but still defends her words.