Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25 F) have been in a relationship for a few months now. I'll keep this short. Me and my girlfriend handle every argument maturely sort everything out. The best partner I could've asked for. There's just this one thing that is a problem between us. She eats non vegetarian food every now and then and I do not. We have talked about this before we got together (when we were friends) and after we got together as well. I mean I don't tell her to not eat it. She can and she does whenever she's with her friend and basically not when I'm around. And tbh that does bother me but I understand I'll have to be fine with a few things.

What happened today was we're gonna stay at her friend's and they were planning about making non Veg. And we don't get to spend time together at all. So I got a bit emotional and fought over that with her. I mean we rarely get to spend some time together so I just expected that maybe one day it'll be fine if she chooses to not eat it because yk why but then idk am I wrong to expect that from her. I'm trying my best to understand her but regardless of my caste or religion killing and eating an animal is like not at all something that I can come at peace with but I understand people are different it's her choice but when I'm with her is it wrong for me to expect her to not eat it because we're obviously gonna have some alone time after that and idk maybe I'm overthinking I just don't wanna be a control freak but this is the only thing that I just cannot make make a compromise over. Idk. Please put talk some sense into me.

TLDR : Differences between me and my girlfriend over her eating non veg when I'm staying with her.


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