She keeps bringing up rings and weddings and it makes me panic
I love her but we only been together one year and im not ready for that big step
I told her I need more time but she says if I really loved her I wouldnt wait
That makes me feel pressured and stressed
I dont want to lose her but I also dont want to commit before im ready
My parents even think its too soon but she thinks they are wrong
How do I slow this down without making her feel unloved

TL;DR
Girlfriend (F25) wants engagement after 1 year I (M26) not ready yet


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