I’ve been seeing this beautiful girl that I met on a dating app about a month ago. We just had our 5th date last night, which was really fun and lasted about 3 and a half hours of just talking and getting drinks.
We discussed this and we’re on the same page about both wanting a relationship and working towards that together. We’re both not going on dates with anyone else and we’ve really only kissed, held hands, things like that. She wants to wait until she’s in a relationship to have sex, which I respect and am okay with because I see this going long term.
But I’ve seen her for one date a week for the last 5 weeks, she tends to work a lot and bartends on the weekends. She has plans with her friends this Sunday but we decided to hang out next Saturday (and maybe grab dinner one night during the week next week).
I feel a bit insecure, like we could be spending more time together, or maybe she’s not that into me honestly. Yet, all signs point to the fact that she is – she is very reserved and quiet, but I think that’s just her personality. She just texted me this morning after our date last night (we both texted each other when we got home) and I still find myself thinking she’s going to end it?
This has been a long standing problem for me, I think I may be an anxious attachment style. I don’t want to bring any of this up to her because clearly it would make her uncomfortable or feel like she’s
being suffocated. Has anyone else dealt with this before?