I never used to have an issue with my husband talking to other women. I actually felt proud to have a man that would respectfully compliment women (I really like your hair/ nails etc). In the last year, he's quit smoking, started working out and his libido has gone way up. Phones have always been open to each other in our 12 years together, and about a year ago I saw that he had been commenting and following several "thots" (girls whos only/main content is bikini pics with suggestive captions or lengerie shoots). Nothing too bad, stuff like you're so gorgeous 😍, so sexy 🔥, them eyes tho, etc. I talked to him and explained that it made me uncomfortable, and it felt almost like cheating to me. He said he would stop. A few months later, I saw where he had commented 🔥🔥🔥 on several videos. We fought, I felt that I had made myself clear, he said it was just emojis. I asked him to stop interacting with the posts all together. A few weeks later, I see that he has liked/ hearted dozens of photos from different girls. He is following several of them on multiple platforms. We fight again, he says he'll just delete everything, and deletes everything but facebook. I find out he is following at least one of these girls and, again, liking their suggestive videos. He says he'll stop, we go to therapy, I say he can download whatever again. He declines. That was a week ago. I just found out that he redownloaded Instagram. I felt upset he didnt talk to me about it, and I feel like he's only on it to look at these other women. It may seem stupid, but at this point it all feels like cheating to me. I know there's nothing physical, but thays how it feels and I dont know how to stop feeling this way. Any help/ advice would be appreciated.