Okay so basically we’ve been together almost 7 years and engaged for 1 and tonight while at dinner he let it slip that he never paid rent and that he also didn’t have enough money to cover our dinner bill like he said he would. We were with other people (including my boss) which made it all more embarrassing because after paying for his birthday party last week (decor, drinks, food, cake, etc) I’m really behind on money and didn’t have enough to pay for dinner which is why I confirmed before we went so I knew how much we could spend and if we should even go. When we got home he yelled at me about how I minimize his job (working as a cook at a pizza restaurant) all because I asked to reconfirm that he had enough money for his half of rent and that wasn’t the reason why we were late paying. He proceeded to tell me that my (3) jobs as a teacher and nanny (for 2 different families) was all “sunshine and rainbows” and I had no reason to complain because he was on his feet over a hot stove for 5 hours a day when I am working 10 straight with no real breaks. I have never once tried to compare our jobs because they are completely different and I always make a point to ask him how his day was and listen without comparing his struggles to mine. I guess I’m just trying to figure out if I’m over reacting. I hear a lot of stuff about how teaching and nannying isn’t a real job and he knows how much it upsets me so hearing it from him kinda has me going crazy. And I know some of it comes from a point of envy because he’s wanted to be an educator too but just hasn’t had the motivation or drive for college until recently. I just don’t know what to do. The augment brought up a lot of other things I’m unhappy with and I just don’t know if I’m being overly sensitive or if I have a right to be offended by this. Any thoughts are greatly appreciated. I would just love to hear an outside pov on all of this. Thank you