My bf M/20 and I F/20 have been together about 2 years. We keep arguing and fighting a lot lately and it’s taken a toll on the both of us. We keep starting small arguments that lead to the same thing and it’s just been a cycle. We’d makeup, we’d get into a small argument that would lead us right back to square one, no matter how many times we’ve tried to communicate. He’s tired, I’m tired. But we still love eachother. We’ve had breaks in the past when we would fight a lot but we never fully went through with them. They’d last a day or two and he’d text or I would. He said he wanted a month…but we live together and so we sleep in the same bed every night. I know this is a break and I haven’t tried to overstep, but he acts like I’m not even there in the room and it’s killing me. I know this break isn’t out of nowhere so the idea that he’s cheating on me is dumb, because it’s more space than a break because we are still together, but I’ve been cheated on in the past and I have so many thoughts flooding my brain. I can respect a break but not saying a word to me just feels straight up awful. Idk. I’m worried that he’s enjoying his life without me in it. Or like that sounds bad I want that but I still want him to want me around you know? He’s stonewalling me and it sucks. I also need the break but I don’t want to feel invisible. I just don’t know what to do. I’m at like 2 more weeks now. Do you think this will break our relationship? Or make it better?
TL;DR – my boyfriend and I are fighting a lot so he wants a month long break. We live together and he’s stonewalling me and it hurts. Will this help my relationship even though it hurts right now?