I’ve been dating a girl for about 2 months now and things were fine the first month but the second just hasn’t been great. Some stuff happened that really “tested” trust and it just hasn’t been the same since.
We are still “together” but the end is nigh on this one. I’ve noticed I’ve stopped caring, stopped texting as much, not having her come over nearly as much anymore. She’s trying to make an effort but I just can’t. Like I said without going into big details but some shady stuff happened by her, and ever since then I just haven’t cared at all.
I don’t know why I haven’t broken up with her yet. Maybe it’s just the fear of confrontation. Maybe it’s the fear of being wrong? I’m afraid slightly that I could be wrong about all the shady stuff that happened and I could throw away a potentially good relationship because of it, but to be honest that’s that’s my last morsel of optimism talking. I don’t know. Shit just sucks.
She knows she’s completely lost my trust and has been doing everything she can to bring things back to the way they were, but the reality is the trust is gone. It really is the foundation of every relationship. Without a foundation, it’s just Termites holding hands.