I see tons of people saying both
1. Meet right away
2. She needs to build comfort over text
As a guy I tried doing it #2 for years and I got tons of flaking, ghosting, and wasted energy.
I feel a lot better since I went with option 1. I waste less time texting ( I hate texting strangers and people in general. I’m an in person and phone call person) and at my age (29) you either know or you don’t in my opinion.
If a lady is uncomfortable meeting within 2-3 days of matching I always offer a phone call to build comfort but if they are solely wanting to text for comfort I always tell them I’m uninterested.
If your boundary is “comfort” but a phone call or meeting for coffee in public is scary and feel a couple texts will make it better and mine is not wasting my time texting then we’re not compatible.
Would love some thoughts ?