i (18F) am japanese but i grew up overseas so both english and japanese is my first language

anyway when i touch myself i think i sound cuter when i moan in japanese? but i don’t have any plans to get with a japanese person and i was wondering if ppl who don’t speak japanese would find it weird if i randomly moaned japanese phrases while having sex in english

idk if this sounds dumb but i’ve never had sex before so that’s i’m very unsure and worried if i might sound weird


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    Post title: is it weird that i moan bilingual? (english + japanese)

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    i (18F) am japanese but i grew up overseas so both english and japanese is my first language

    anyway when i touch myself i think i sound cuter when i moan in japanese? but i don’t have any plans to get with a japanese person and i was wondering if ppl who don’t speak japanese would find it weird if i randomly moaned japanese phrases while having sex in english

    idk if this sounds dumb but i’ve never had sex before so that’s i’m very unsure and worried if i might sound weird

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  3. I don’t think people would find it weird, no. In fact a lot of people might be into that.

  5. its sounds normal, at least it’s you and not pretending – I am sure your partner would be more happy of you do in your mother language

  6. All I would care to hear is what comes naturally to my partner. I would be concerned if they had enough presence of mind to think about which moan to use

  7. Speaking from personal experience:

    I don’t care what my partner says/mumbles/moans during sex as long as they’re enjoying themselves and are satisfied.

    And i am about 95% sure any other man would be the same. Might wanna make sure to tell them the meaning of those phrases at some point though.

    And since you grew up overseas, chances of you having adopted that stupid shame culture are probably slim.

  8. I live in a foreign country, and every woman I’ve been with has found it very hot when I talk dirty to them in my native tongue.

  10. I think most people who don’t speak Japanese will like it because it will be seem genuine it a way that says this is so good I can’t help myself. At least that was my experience with the moans/noises/dirty talk of one of my ex’s.

    And I don’t see how that would be more or less cute.

    But it certainly is not weird.

  11. If I was doing things to my partner that made her start to moan in her native language, because she could not concentrate enough to talk to me in the language I knew. Well yea I’m pretty sure that would be an immense ego boost. Zero complaints. In fact, yes, hotter then if she was speaking English, by far. The only thing to be careful with is if you were try to give an instruction like, “keep doing that, don’t stop” or, “faster” etc. Then if your partner doesn’t understand it might ruin YOUR moment.

  12. At the end of the day I’d want you to react normally… so if moaning in Japanese is what comes naturally to you then go for it.

    With that being said, personally I’d prefer to understand what my partner is saying. And I like dirty talk so it would take some getting used to to dirty talk to someone in English and them responding in Japanese

  13. Nah i be speaking Spanish and the white girls love it even tho they have no clue what im sayin lmao

  14. I think it’s completely normal. Sex and orgasm are such moments of vulnerability and raw expression. Whatever form that takes is beautiful, especially at point of climax.

    So, speak whichever language you want – and have fun!

  15. My man is from Mexico and I looove hearing him speak Spanish….especially when we are in bed

  16. I feel like if you’re old/mature enough to be sleeping with someone who speaks two different languages, you’re not gonna be weirded out when one or both of those languages come out haha

  19. I absolutely wouldnt find it weird lol. I cant think of a single man that would have an issue with that.

  21. As others have said, people might well be into it. But I’d encourage you to think less about what others will think about your moaning, and more about what comes naturally to you and feels right. Moaning while getting off isn’t a performance (unless you’re a sex worker/otherwise specifically incentivised). So stop worrying about what others think and moan in whatever language feels right. I guarantee whoever you’re with will respond better to an authentic moan than one compromised by you trying to do it in the “right” language.

  22. I’m a native french speaker with an american partner. Yes it will most likely be very attractive to your partner lol, especially if you’re doing it because you’re letting go instead of focusing on another language.

  24. When im with Japanese women and they moan in English it turns me off.

    But god.. their Japanese moans are something else.. makes me unload immediately.

    After sex i asked this Japanese girl why did she switch to Japanese instead. She said because she enjoyed my rythm and thick penis. It’s a compliment I’d never forget.

  26. I wouldn’t worry unless your partner demands a translator sit by the bed during sex.

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