So i heard back from the girl I was seeing
She actually called me back a couple days ago and wanted to talk. She wanted to meet in person, but I insisted she just tell me over the phone.
She said she's sorry for how she reacted, she told me she just felt offended and thought I just assumed she was a s.l.t. (the automod deleted my post for using the actual word)
I told her thanks for the apology.
I get the feeling she was expecting or hoping for me to ask if she wanted to try again, but I just said bye.
Her reaction to this still left a bad taste, AND I'm dating someone else, and I'm a one person at a time kind of guy.
Also, to answer a question y'all had.
No, I didn't tell her I was gonna do the same because she got mad at me before I could explain. So yeah, I was actually not seeing or sleeping with anyone when she asked to take it slow.