we’ve been together going on 4 years now. i’m 8months pregnant now. i intiate sex. i give him blowjobs which he happily accepts. but then it comes to me and there’s nothing. i go weeks without any kind of sex or stimulation from him. when i got pregnant our sex life slowed down but now it’s basically full stop for like 4 months now. 4 months ago i found out he has a serious porn addiction and now it’s like he doesn’t feel like he has to hide it and just chooses it anyway. he doesn’t want to break up. he always promises we’ll “have sex in the morning” or he’s “tired” and it never happens. he ends up in the bathroom for an hour instead, i’m assuming watching porn. my self esteem is already affected by being pregnant, and this just makes me feel worse. he’s in therapy individually but i feel like it’s not helping. idk what to do for me or for this relationship. and im scared that it will continue after the baby is here, granted at 35 weeks, he could be here any day now…

TLDR: i’m pregnant and my bf of four years has a porn addiction and won’t have sex with me and i don’t really know why.


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