Hello all. I am currently pausing dating and focusing on myself but I would like to collect some data. I have been in a LTR for 3 years, where I heard during breakup that he doesn't love me anymore and wanted to leave… for a year. After that I was dating someone who was grieving and pulled away as soon as things got serious. In both cases there were signs for emotional unavailability, but nothing screaming run!
What are some of yours, even very specific to situation, unique signs of emotional unavailability that you faced? Even if things were going great at first? Let's collect some knowledge.