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So me(45F) and my husband(47M) have been together sexually for around 15ish years. Our sex life has been amazing. Most of the time we have sex multiple times a day if not in the week and sometimes we have sex monthly. We're quite happy with this though. We just do it whenever we feel like it.

My husband's love language has always been touch. Since we started dating he's loved to have his hands on my non sexually. Like, playing with my hair, have his hands on my back etc. I've never thought much of it untill maybe a week or so. I've been so turned on by the little stuff recently.

My husband wakes up an hour before me to get stuff done. When I wakeup I usually hug him from the front (while he's making breakfast etc) and we talk about our plans for the day. We're both usually groggy at this time. Past few days I've been so turned on by his morning voice and sleepy moans, I even initialed sex with his multiple times because of this. Even during the day he likes to grab my waist and tummy and it has started to turn me on. He once had his hands on my cheek caressing it and i instinctively sucked his thumb. Yesterday too, he kissed my neck while I was working and whispered that he's going out to get groceries, he ended the sentence with sweetheart, which is normal for him but it made me wet.

I'm genuinely so confused, I feel odd thinking about it, like im ruining an innocent moment between us. I don't want this to be the case. Has anyone else experienced this random change (horniness ) too? It was never like this for me. Yes, he'd turn me on pretty easy, but always from foreplay, dirty talk etc. Never just daily stuff.


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